User blog comment:FlammeumDraco333/I'm Done Here/@comment-27797576-20151123164257

Actually, I never said I wanted you to leave. I just said I can't push you to go or stay. It's your choice. I should also make it clear, when I said that you caused over 50% of said flaming, and YOU were causing your own problem, I was not impling that you leave, nor that you were a bad person or anything like that. But I was implying that if you really wanted the flaming to stop, you should stop provoking it so often. And in chat, most of us are having discussions and agruements. Nobody usually tosses around insults in them, which is what a flame war is. That is the key, and very vital, difference between a flame war and a discussion. Sure, discussions and agruements can get heated(and plant the seeds to start a flame war), but it doesn't start to become a flame war until someone starts insulting someone and they reply to that and you give a counter and etc. Plus, if you take the intishitive(yes, it's spelled wrong, shush), it's not hard to make RP no longer stagnant.

As I've said on chat, Oi isn't really an answer. First off, in most of your recent agruements, you started the fighting. And second off, while Oi with what you have might work, Oi by himself wouldn't be a reason. IIRC, I've had to deal with him much, much longer than you, I've had to deal with the arguements he's put up with much longer(Look a while back at the Yamato vs Iowa thing I had a while back with the side agruements and such on NC wiki), and at one point, hated Oi more AP(and mind you, AP is was the worst person to talk against, ever. You simply can't compare him to the other GMer's, as he actually had a brain. Much better than Oi. Just as annoying, much smarter(IMAO), and often started massive flame wars, that he caused, by making a ship that is physically impossible in RP, and didn't even have a picture for it! Plus his science, to say the least, was also pretty illogical.). Now I do still hate Oi, but he simply can't compare to AP. If you ever had to deal with AP for an extended period, you would feel the same. But you never really knew AP. I did. Oi can be annoying, but it's only for a short period, due to the fact he simply can't keep up an arguement. If you drag it on long enough, Oi is very much likely to slip up and use the exact same rebutal reused multiple times, and then it gets boring. AP can actually structure the entire arguement before hand(and give changed reasons each time), which makes it much harder to not flame and make me angry I have to write a unessecarily complex rebuttal and etc. There is some days where Oi wanted me to leave. But IIRC, it's pretty easy to evade Oi's grasps. Just avoid talking to him, and he'll usually stop talking to you, and TADA, mutual silence. Basically, don't talk to him unless absolutely nessecary.

I will say this. You can go if you want. But trust me, you'll come back one day. Unless you absolutely hated this wiki, you are probably going to come back. It's actually a proven fact on this wiki that people who try to leave come back, XD. Mace has tried, Doc has tried, even I have tried. It's very hard to leave for any extended period of time. The longest I've stopped RPing is about a week when I go to summer camp. The most successful one when I don't need to do something IRL where I don't have internet or devices, has been 3 days. 3. Days. And that was due to marc months and months and months ago with star command tech and @$#@. That and the nearly 2 month long lag I had when RPing last summer(but that was due to lack of computer). Doc has successfully leaved. But only after having given delusion to kitty(and even then, he still comes back occasionally. Maybe not to RP, but still). Any other attempts he made ended in failure. Same with nearly everyone else who is active who has tried to do so(we will not speak of tato in this. He's different). It's a nearly scientific fact. Nearly.